I today’s age it is so easy to get depressed and anxious. Pain according to many experts has become viral due to the rampant use of social medial and other online platform. When someone posts about something sad and tragic, the negative vibe and feeling automatically run across the people who read, see, and hear it. It’s how things go now and especially people get easily depressed and anxious due to the fast-paced and abnormally demanding lifestyle that most people have today.
You are in that set-up and it feels like you are living a life of a robot and a zombie. Your life is close to the feeling of apocalypse with no sense of beginning and everything seems like it’s decaying around you – along with you. You feel lifeless and demotivated most of the time and days and years age upon you and you feel the least excited about life anymore.
Something is wrong and you know that. The elephant in the room is there but you keep your eyes close as you are too afraid to confront the darkness of your reality. The reality that says you are worn out, afraid, tried, exhausted, and drained from all of these things that you are feeling and doing ever since day 1. You want to settle down and rest. You want to begin again and you want to start and pick up the pieces of yourself where you left.
It’s hard and so you keep on running around its edges sometimes father from the real origin and cause of the feeling. But you need to do something and work on yourself and become a better person. You need to practice self-compassionate and self-love for that. You might think that you are lacking most of everything but it is only the affection for your own self own self that you lack the most.
But how is it going to work and where does someone begin when they need a fresh start? Where would you begin? That is the question and quite honestly pulling up your own self together is expensive and demanding but most expensive. It costs so much to be okay nowadays, a price only few people can afford to pay. If you want to really fight for self-love and begin again you need to make some alternatives. You can make change and you can just use a book for it.
If paying for a counselor and psychiatrist is quite out of your budget’s league then you can resort to reading blogs and free e-books online. You don’t even have to buy a book because you only need to look for free e-books online that talk about self compassion and coaching.
If you want a basis on how you will change your life, you need only a book and a well-updated self compassion and coaching blog to be your sounding board and stepping stone. It’s going to be easy, but it’s going to take the whole of you to make it work.